Intentional Parenting

Designed for parents of
0-11 year old children

No More Power Struggles.

Secure Attachment.

Co-Regulation. Repair. Trusted Authority.

Your Child Trusts Your Calm Leadership.

Steady Evenings.

Shorter Conflicts.

Authority Without Escalation.

Co-Regulation & Conflict Resolution

No more guessing.

No more walking on eggshells.

No more power struggles that last for hours.

No more desperate attempts at behavior control.

For your child

Meltdowns end faster — and stop running the emotional climate of your home.

They hear “no” without collapsing because your “no” feels like guidance, not threatening.

They come to you instead of fighting you.

They trust your leadership.

For you

You stop replaying the day at night.

You don’t dread transitions, bedtime, or public outings.

You know what to do in the hard moment — while it’s happening.

You stay calm without giving in.

You and your partner lead the same way.

For your home

The noise level drops.

Life becomes a string of ordinary moments.

Guidance becomes predictable instead of emotional.

Connection returns — without losing authority.

What changes

The way your child responds to limits.

The way you experience conflict.

The length and intensity of hard moments.

Your confidence in your role as the secure base.

These shifts happen because the course changes how you lead — not how many techniques you memorize.

Attachment stabilizes the structure.
Structure stabilizes the behavior.

Enter the full course

Accessible by design.
This course is Pay-What-You-Can so cost is never the barrier.
100% of additional contributions go toward making this available to more families.
No portion is taken as profit.

Full Course

For families ready to fully engage
$1 - $299
  • Pay What You Can
  • Full Access
  • Start Today
  • 9 Modules
  • 50 Video Resource
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30-day No-Questions-Asked Money-Back-Guarantee.

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If you want to help to make this program accessible for more families, please consider an additional contribution.

Monthly Live Sessions

Bring the situation that keeps repeating in your home.

Leave knowing exactly how to handle it — calmly, clearly, and consistently.

Included with course and no extra cost!

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Join Us Every 2nd Thursday

This is for parents who:

  • Feel trapped in repeated power struggles
  • Are exhausted by inconsistent discipline
  • Are not aligned with their partner
  • Want authority without disconnection
  • Care more about long-term development than short-term obedience

1-on-1 Availability (Optional)

Standalone Parenting Sessions

1-on-1 consultations with Anthony

$120/hour — 60 or 90 minutes

Integration with the Intentional Relationship Intensive

Only for: Intentional Relationship clients
$400 — for two 2-hour focused 1-on-1 blocks with Anthony

These optional sessions are available for families who need to:

  • Stop the cycle of escalation that has taken over daily life
  • Get both parents responding the same way
  • Know exactly what to do next — not in theory — in practice

Book a 60min Call

Book a 90min Call

One lens per week

Each week you receive one short piece you can use the same day with your own child.

No volume. No promotion.

Just one real situation — and the response that changes it.

About Anthony

I work with families where the usual advice has stopped working — where the real issue isn’t the child’s behavior, but the attachment structure underneath it.

This course comes from years of direct work with parents who needed something usable tonight.

It replaces guesswork with leadership.

Anthony Santen, CT, SAC DIP(Adv. Psychotherapy)

You are not looking for more parenting information.

You are looking for your home to feel secure again.

Begin the course.

This work remains accessible because families like yours, choose to carry it forward.

A science-backed, outcome-driven course. You follow a deliberate sequence of exercises, build new skills each week, and ‘graduate’ able to run your relationship independently—no endless sessions or hourly bills.

Encouragement and mindset pep-talks; great for motivation, yet often missing a structured curriculum or clear metric of success, so progress plateaus.

Weekly talk sessions centred on past wounds and validation. Useful in your 20s, but usually open-ended, expensive, and light on actionable tools for couples who need change now.