We designed it to be very manageable: about 90–120 minutes per week is plenty to watch the videos and try the exercises. Some couples do one module a week; others binge multiple modules in a weekend. You have lifetime access and flexible pacing, so you can go as fast or slow as you need. Even if you’re busy, you can fit this in and start seeing results.

No. While it’s wonderful to do together, many of our students start on their own. The beauty is that your changes in behavior and emotional clarity will shift the relationship dynamic – even if your partner isn’t actively doing the course. Often one partner’s growth inspires the other to join in later, but it’s not required to see improvements. You’ll learn to lead by example.

It’s self-paced and outcome-focused. There are 16 modules. Most couples complete it in about 12–16 weeks if they do roughly a module per week. But you can absolutely go faster or slower. Some finish in 8 weeks; others spread it over 6 months. It’s totally up to you and what feels right. There's no time limit.

Many participants report feeling a shift in the first few days – sometimes even after the very first module, you’ll have a new perspective that eases some tension. The more tangible transformations (improved communication, less fighting, more intimacy) build over the following weeks as you practice the skills. By the end of the course (or even halfway), most couples say things feel dramatically different than before. Remember, you have a month free to see these initial changes for yourself.

Yes. All lessons are online, and you can access them on any device. It’s 100% private, self-guided, and convenient. No scheduling, no travel, no awkward group sessions. Just you (and your partner if they join) learning in your living room, on your own schedule.

You’re not alone – that’s exactly why we created this program. Traditional therapy can be great for insight, but it often doesn’t give concrete tools for day-to-day change, and it can be slow. The Intentional Relationship is different: it’s structured, focused on the present and future, and teaches you practical skills each week. We emphasize rebuilding and re-learning patterns rather than just revisiting old wounds. Many couples who felt let down by therapy have succeeded with this course because it’s more action-oriented.

Three big differences: (1) It’s attachment-style aware – we tailor advice to your pattern (most courses ignore this). (2) It’s not fluff or just motivational talk; it’s grounded in psychology and neuroscience research, but broken down into real-world steps. (3) It’s proven – developed by a specialist with 25+ years experience and refined with real couples, not a blogger’s opinion. Also, you’re getting lifetime access for one price, whereas coaching can cost thousands for a limited time. Essentially, this is deeper than coaching, but more actionable than therapy.

Absolutely, yes. In fact, many couples use the tools from this program to enhance their therapy sessions. Think of this course as giving you the skill practice and mindset shifts that make therapy more effective. Counselors have even referred clients to this course to accelerate their progress. There’s no conflict in doing both – they can complement each other well.

Then you shouldn’t have to pay for it. Really. You have a full 30 days to try the course from the day you enroll. Dive in and complete as much as you like. If you don’t love it, just send us an email at any time in that window and we’ll issue a prompt, full refund. No hoops to jump through, no hard feelings. Our goal is for every student to feel it was 100% worth it. If it’s not delivering that for you, we insist on giving your money back. Your trust matters.

(Just go to 'My Account' and click on the cancel button)